We came down here with only the things we could fit in our car, and in the little carrier we stuck on top. So all our furniture was sold and I knew I had to buy new furniture in Mexico.
It's demoralizing to have to buy the exact same thing you already had like a week before. I thought, maybe it will be cheaper in Mexico. But no. This is a peninsula, and it's hard to get merchandise here. It's been annoying trying to get everything we need.
Right now my mom is struggling to get up from a mattress on a floor because we couldn't get her bed base in time. It's a few more days of hell for her. I figured she'd sleep up in my room until she got the bed and I'd sleep down there, but the stairs are too much for her.
I thought that I would be able to get everything I needed and wanted in Mexico. They have Amazon here, right? But it's not true. The stories I heard about things being hard to get in Baja California Sur are true. That's what I wanted to cover here.
We wanted to buy cheap stuff to replace all we sold. I couldn't find any used furniture stores. Okay, so we went to new furniture stores. All of them had dicey delivery dates that were usually wrong. It has to come from Juarez. It has to come from Guadalajara. Who knows when you'll get it?
The most reliable was Walmart.com.mx, but even that has changed dates. Some stuff came too early, before we were here, meaning we had to run over from the Air BnB. Other stuff was supposed to be here by now, but isn't. Delivery dates were changed and no notifications sent.
Okay, fine. It's inconvenient, but we'll get it all eventually right? That's for the things we could find. What about the stuff we couldn't find?
My mom needs an arm chair that lifts her up. We had one in the States. I found one on Mercado Libre. I ordered it. They canceled the order and refunded me. I don't know why.
The Mexico Walmart lets me pay in Paypal which is a form of payment that never gets canceled. So great. I've gotten the bulk of our furniture from there. But they don't have this chair she needs.
They have it on Amazon.com.mx. They accept my credit card there and don't cancel on me later. I just had to give my immigration number so stuff could be imported in my name. Great. However, I'm literally having to have the chair shipped from the USA. They don't have any in Mexico. So my $650 chair is now $1100.
Further more, they don't know when it will ship. They said to order it and they'll get back to me.
That's one example, another two are fly swatters and back scrubbers. I guess these aren't things used in this area. No store has them. Not even the expensive gringo mall. I had to have those imported too, and I still don't have them as of right now. The flies are driving me crazy.
You think some things are universal and basic. Like a scale to weigh yourself. I try searching for 'escala' online. I get tiny food scales. Apparently there's a different word for them here. Balanza. It's been hard to find one.
I can't find body wash. I've had to go back to bar soap.
I use wrist weights when I exercise. I've had to have those imported from the USA again.
Speaking of exercise, I have a new treadmill and finally used it today. It's short. Like it's made for a shorter person than me. I have to lean down to reach the handrails. It's also narrow. I worried I'd hit the sides with my feet, but it was okay.
What's not okay is that the timer resets when I have to stop to get off and take a drink of water. Which I have to do because the only Topo Chico I can get is giant 1.5L bottles that won't fit in the cup holders. I couldn't keep track of how long I was on.
The light switches are never where you expect them. My bedroom light: it should be right by the door. No. It's in some random place on the wall. Same with the bathroom light. Why there? Also they are sideways instead of up and down.
The toilet is stupidly placed too close to the sink so it's difficult to use. Again, probably because I'm tall? But I'm not really seeing that many people shorter than me, honestly. They have great diets here and aren't suffering malnutrition. But I guess the house was built back when Mexicans were shorter.
I've had to get my mom's travel toilet grab-bars and use them for my toilet because there's not enough space in front of me to stand up easily.
I love that Mexico only has showers and not difficult to step into bathtubs (I realize that's because no one wants to sit in a tub of contaminated Mexican water). However, I don't have a shower curtain. There's no feasible way to shower without the water spraying all over the bathroom floor.
I do have 'hot' water now. Not as hot as I'd like, but warm enough that I can actually stay under the flow and enjoy a shower instead of just reaching in for enough ice cold water to clean my vital areas. We didn't have hot water when we moved in because we were out of gas. Now we have reasonably warm water, and I'm grateful.
Getting the gas delivered was a pain in the ass. I'm still learning Spanish so I don't like calling places. Even if I could understand them, they talk too fast and ask questions I'm not expecting. So I tried to order gas online. I ordered 3 times and finally got a call from someone. I was in the store and my mom was home.
They asked where my house was. I gave the address. No. They want the coordinates. I'm sorry, I don't have my sextant and it's day time so I can't align it with the stars. WTF do you mean you want the fucking coordinates?!
Okay, I got the coordinates from Google Maps and send it through Whatsapp. They reply with 'Call the vendor. Here's the number'. ASSHOLE! JUST DELIVER THE FUCKING GAS!
I had to have my mom call and we finally got our gas tank filled in a horrifying way. They put a ladder against a beam. They climbed up and balanced on the beam with a giant hose to walk 10 feet to the entry to the roof. My eyeballs nearly dropped from my head. He's 30 feet up balancing like a trapeze artist with a fucking gas hose. Then he filled the tank that's apparently up there.
I was wondering: What if he fell. Would I be liable? Would the landlords be liable? Would the gas company be liable? Is liability a thing in Mexico or do they just send the family flowers?
But gas meant I finally got a warm shower and could truly get clean. Praise God for that.
Meanwhile, I need my bidet toilet seat. I thought: I'll just import one from the USA if they don't have any here (which they don't). But guess what? Toilets are different sizes and shapes in Mexico.
Again, like an idiot, I figured toilet sizes were a universal thing. No. The toilets here are weird, short, and designed to get as dirty as possible as fast as possible (at least for me).
But I did find a Mexican bidet toilet seat on Amazon.com.mx. (Before you give me shit over this, I have a medical condition that makes me use the bathroom 9-12 times a day. A bidet saves me from a lot of problems. I don't want to live without one). It was supposed to come April 1. Then April 4. Then April 7. And now April 11. :sigh:
We're also waiting for a washing machine. Dryers aren't widely used in Mexico and my mom is too old to be hanging laundry. We have division of labor and laundry is her job. I cook and keep the house clean (by paying a maid).
Anyway, we have space outside in our nice open garden area for a washing machine. It's by the kitchen, right outside the back door, so not too inconvenient. Washers are usually outside because that's where you have to hang the clothes anyway. It has a sink by it that has groves for you to scrub the clothes against...like those old washing boards.
There's no room for a dryer in that spot. We thought we'd get a stacked washer dryer, but there's shit above the washer, so we can't do that. Okay, around the corner in the garden is another outlet and a spot where we could put a dryer.
Landlords: The electricity for that outlet isn't strong enough for a dryer. You'd keep getting shorts.
We have to use the same outlet as the washer. Where there's no room for a dryer. And putting an extension cord outdoors is asking for trouble.
Okay, so I bought a washer/dryer combo. A lavasecadora it's called. It should be here April 1. No, April 4. No April 7. Meanwhile my mom got fed up and hand-washed some underwear so she could shower. We didn't have much clothes left from what we got rid of before we moved.
I'm making do with my tiny Mexican kitchen. I got it all set up just how I liked it. So the landlord came to tell me to get everything out of the main cabinet since he's putting in a new one. I said not to do that because I'd just gotten everything perfect. He said my mom requested it. FFS.
So I took every out of the cabinet. And a new cabinet arrived. Because he ordered it online. They dropped it off and left. So my shit is all over the place because no one got rid of the old one and installed the new one. I don't even want to go downstairs. I'd just gotten to where I could cook and serve food easily. I had a designated coffee area, microwave area, cutting area, and it's all fucked up for who knows how long.
So yeah. We're still trying to get settled.
Meanwhile I still have to do my work. And it's piled up. I had to get three games out yesterday. The main one, I don't know. It's not as good as it should be. I just didn't have time to deal with it. We'll see what the reviewers say.